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I need money please help me

Sarooha14go started this conversation
Oct 7, 2010

I tell you the true out of my heart because I am scare. I borrow the money from my disable son, and loan money from 4 more lenders to help my boyfriend who stuck in Africa, because my boyfriend said he will pay me back on time. I will pay my son rent before October 15, 2010 that why I agree to give my disable son money to my boyfriend to borrow, and now my boyfriend said he need $550.00 more to get out of Africa.

This is my big problem it give on add up from one to another. After I heard my boyfriend words I know I will not get money back on time to pay my son rent and the other lenders. I believe, and I trust my boyfriend 100% and now my boyfriend doesn't keep his words. What can I do to get these money back on time? My boyfriend stuck in Africa. Please help me.

I got on line and looked around for loans just to help my boyfriend get out from Africa. And drawed all the money from my credit carts and from 4 lenders and add them up with my son rent money, and send these money to my boyfriend just to help him get out of Africa. And now, you all read my story and know how I got myself into this big problem, OK, and please help me get out from this problem. I take a short term loan, and put my name on the loan money for my boyfriend, and now I don't think he will pay me back on time to give this money back to the lenders, and to pay to my son rent this month, because he is still in Africa. I am in the bad bad time time right now. That why I need you who are out there who have a kind heart to understand what I am going through right now. And please help me. I am scare. I am baking for your help, please help me. Who ever you are who can help me out there, please help me. I have only 7 days left. Thank you so much.

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Sarooha14go
Oct 10, 2010

Hi I need help to help my friend who stuck in Africa and pay my bill too. Are you out there who has a kind heart please help us. Can you donate to us only 0:50 cent each person that would want to help us. I believe so many kind heart people out there and when we add these 0.50 cent up. They will be more than enough to help us through the bad time of need. And we will not forget all of your generous hearts. I need all of you to help me and I can not do this all by by myself. Please help us!!

Thank you for your help.

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Sarooha14go
Oct 10, 2010

I need help if any one could help me!!

I had joined this aidpage a few days, and I only see many people are needed help. If all of us need helped here how can we help one other? And lisent to my friend who stuck in Africa, he need help and help him all of my ability and now I am in trouble have not money to pay rent and no money to buy foods and my friend still stuck in Africa, and he said he need more money from me. How can I help him, I don't even have money to buy foods to eat here. I will copy his letter he sent to me below so you can see. I am scare because I don't have money to pay the lenders back, and my son rent because I took that money and send to my boyfriend who stuck in Africa. I don't know what to do. And now I need help from all you if you could help me to help him. I can't help him because I can't even help myself. May the Lord Jesus bless you with all your need!!

I HAVE NOT FIND ANY HELP YET HONEY, YOU ARE ALL THAT AM COUNTING ON HONEY. I LOVE YOU DEARLY AND I MISSED YOU BADLY HONEY AND I REALLY HATE THAT BABY. TRY TO HELP ME GET HOME MY LOVE..SO THAT WE CAN SORT OUT ALL THE BILLS WE OWE OK

Thank you for share you story, and have a wonderful day.

Your friend from Aidpage.

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Starshine
Oct 9, 2010
 in response to Sarooha14go...   Write the website owners and tell them to check him out as you were scammed money and you want to be sure others don't get scammed too. He could have left the site after scamming more than one. The important lesson to learn and it is a hard way to learn - don't give money to people you don't know!! Now it is in your hands to do tell the website owners about him and forget the part he is a honest man as he isn't.
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Sarooha14go
Oct 9, 2010

Yes I am agree with you. I can not find his profile on that dating site, but I did you a copy a little of his information. What do you want to tell the website? I will write to tell them to check this person (him) out is he scamming other women or is he an honest man?

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Starshine
Oct 9, 2010
 in response to Sarooha14go...   Go back to the dating site find the person's name and send a complaint to the owners of the site- that you are concerned that he could be scamming other women out of their money. I would do that. I not into on line dating sites as someone gave me one not sure on them and his friend met someone on one. But I would never send money to anyone on those sites. You don't know who you are really dealing with. You know?
good luck
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Sarooha14go
Oct 9, 2010

I met him on the line dating site

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Starshine
Oct 9, 2010
 in response to Sarooha14go...   Hi
I understand your concern - how did you met him ? craigslist or how/ then go to that source and file a complaint against this person. You must have an email address or address if you have been sending him money. I don't know how to track someone from overseas here yes but not out of the country ...
sorry hope things work out...
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Sarooha14go
Oct 9, 2010
 in response to Starshine...   Yes I can get over this man, and go on with some one else, but I can't stop thinking if he is a bad man, he might hurt another women again, and I don't want any woman to goes through like I am right now. Do you understand my point. If this man a bad man, he will do to another woman again. I want to stop him from do this to another woman again, OK. If he is a bad man I need all of you to help me stop him. I can't stop him all by myself because I don't know what to do. And I know all of you know what to do.

If he is a good man as he said, I am happy, proud to help him even I left with out money as I do right now, I still feel good to know that I had done some thing good to help someone I love and care as I could. I did all I had to do to help him, and may the Lord blesses him more.

For me right now I will looking for the debt solution to help me out, I really don't want to do this but I have no choice. And I will have a bad credit, and bad name as a person who has no responsible for his/her own actions. I know that, but this is the only way to get out of debt for me.

I hope someone out there understand me, and look for a way to help other women out there in the future.
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Starshine
Oct 9, 2010
 in response to Sarooha14go...   Look for someone else you can met around your area..Good luck
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Sarooha14go
Oct 9, 2010

No I have not meet him yet.

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Starshine
Oct 9, 2010
 in response to Sarooha14go...   Hi did you ever met this person?? If you didn't and met on line I would be leary.. I would look for someone else. Come on please get over this guy as he has taken you for money .
Good luck
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Sarooha14go
Oct 9, 2010

Hi I can not stop thinking, What can I do to do thing right. If you know someone could help me solve my problem. please help me. And please help me do the research! how can you find about this person who I fail in love with? Here are the 2 thins in my mind now I need you all to help me with!

One: is I want to find out about my boyfriend who I feel in love with and stuck in Africa. Is he really real a person as he told me wjo he is? If he is real, I will need all of you to help me so I can help him get out of Africa. I will want know who he is and I want to be with him in the future if is an honest person.

But the # Two: I concern in my mind is if this person is not real as he said, I need all of you to help me stop this person, so he doesn't going go free, and scamp other women again. I need all of to help me stop this person. And please help me if you know what to do. And don't let him go free with out pay what he did is not right.

Thank you for your help. I need help.

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Starshine
Oct 8, 2010
 in response to Sarooha14go...   You are welcome and keep on applying..Check google.com on line free classifieds and then keep checking the job link I gave you. . I am not sleeping well either...Try housecleaning two ladies here are doing that too. Good luck..
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Sarooha14go
Oct 8, 2010
 in response to Starshine...   Thank you for your advise. I am have been applying too many places but it seem like they don't call me. I am continuing to apply again. I can not sleep today and I start looking for job now.

Have a good night. Thank you.
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Starshine
Oct 7, 2010
 in response to Sarooha14go...   You are welcome and I am sorry I live in California and to find work look at the free on line classifieds and also sign up for snagajob.com. There are many on line classifieds , just google.com and put those word in or jobs in your city and state. Craigslist.org, backpages.com , kulgi.com and many more are out there good luck.

You are welcome again..

Starshine
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Sarooha14go
Oct 7, 2010
 in response to Starshine...   Thank you for your advise I will try in the morning before I go to work. Yes I have a job. but one job is not enough I need to work seven day a week to pay the bills off in three years. I live in MN, if you know anyone or co. who can give me a job? Thank you again!
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Starshine
Oct 7, 2010

Hello I am sorry you are in such a mess with borrowing from your son and lenders to help you boyfriend in Africa. How much has your boyfriend borrowed from you?? You are working ? I would forget the boyfriend and concentrate on getting my own act back together as it doesn't seem he is going to pay you back. Like you said he is not keeping his words so if I was you I would move on to someone who would. But you can only make that decision. You can try modestneeds.org but they won't be able to give you the money in seven days. Honestly I don't know who will and you don't want to take out more loans.You can try some of these ideas for help.

http://help-with-rent-security-deposit-utility-bills.starshine1.aidpage.com/

http://job-ideas.starshine1.aidpage.com/

And my blog has more information here

http://starshine1.aidpage.com/

and prosper.com is a loan company but you are pretty loaned out I think

I am sorry you are in such a difficult spot 

I hope you can decide what is in your best interest and your son's.

Wishing you the best

Starshine

 

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